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Verna Wilder's avatar

Where I live, tonight we will turn the clocks back an hour and open our hearts to whatever the darkness has to offer. It wasn't until after my wife died that I came to love this time of year. I love what Koshin Ellison said about what to do: Let our hearts break. We break open, and that's life and that's love. Thank you for this beautiful piece

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

🙏🏽❤️ So beautiful, Verna. “…open our hearts to whatever the darkness has to offer.”

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Joyce Young's avatar

Your words about the current inner and outer season ring true. Thank you.

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Kelly's avatar

That is the third time I have read that Rumi quote today! And typically when something shows up repetitively in my life like that, it's a cue to pay attention. I am listening.

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

Whoa! That's a lot in one day!!!!

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Noelle Canin's avatar

In Rumi's field...I will meet you...and we will let our hearts break...

Thank you Danusha, as always your heart is in your words and they matter, they matter so much, especially in these times of horror, revenge, and loss of hope.

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

Thank you, Noelle. How to live in heartbreak, I don't know. But that seems to be the task of this moment.

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Noelle Canin's avatar

Very much so. One of things that most helps me is just being with it. Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, for instance, agrees to fully meet whatever comes into the space without denying, rejecting or fighting it. Just being with it. Very Buddhist and I believe, the only way to go in this world - to agree to meet everything, fully, and be with it. Not always simple, but always possible.

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Elizabeth Adilman's avatar

Always love what you have to say and how you say it.

Thank you.

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Mary Hutto Fruchter's avatar

I think it’s Parker Palmer that writes about how only when our hearts are broken are we then able to receive certain gifts. A broken heart is not to be feared but tended. Beautiful post as always.

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Lisa Ashley's avatar

Thank you, Danusha. I have a poem titled What Cracks Open. The impetus or inspiration for it came from an experience that broke my heart. I know my heartbreak was a gift.

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Claire Coenen's avatar

such beautiful reminders and permission ❤️

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Glaser, Michael's avatar

well spoken! thank you,

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The Misbehaved Muse's avatar

Such a nourishing post Danusha!

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Hannah Levy's avatar

I try to think of allowing my heart to break, over and over again, as a way to expand it. I feel more deeply when I allow my heart to feel the extent of the pain.

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