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Susan Wright's avatar

For me the beauty and realization are the final sentences..."I say this to the self who still struggles to find a solid place to hold onto. “Don’t hold on,” I tell her. And, if only for a moment––a moment that feels like a small implosion––I put down the weight of that carrying, drop my shoulders and I’m free, unencumbered, alive in time." Surrender and as Galway Kinnell so poignantly wrote: "But trust the hours. Haven’t they/

carried you everywhere, up to now?"

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

Oh that Galway quote! So gorgeous. And I remember Galway. Met him way back when. Saw him recite Yeats while holding a burning candelabra above his head.

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Susan Wright's avatar

What a glorious experience

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A Girl Named Earl's avatar

"And isn’t every moment a world? Look at a baby discovering their own feet. The pure thrill of having toes. Who could imagine something more surprising?"

👣🥹💛

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Lee Rossi's avatar

Thanks for the reminder. One by one I see my friends disappear. Eventually I will be my turn.

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

It’s the hardest thing 🙏🏽❤️

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Dr. Kathy O'Fallon's avatar

I’ve read this several times now and just want you to know that I deeply appreciate your and strong, feminine touch on the subject dearest to my heart. So much wisdom. Thank you.

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

🩷🙏🏽🌺

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Sarah Stockton's avatar

So poignant and relatable Danusha. Thank you for sharing this- it sparked a poem today.

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

Best possible outcome! 🩷😉

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Lisa Geiszler's avatar

I keep re-remembering to o & have a Notes folder where I write but then, of course, forget to look.

I found myself rushing to run an errand today. Then, in the car thought, these are my moments I won’t get back— why am I rushing. So I slowed. Took the drive in. For that moment. 😀. And so it goes. Remembering and forgetting and remembering to remember. I love poetry because it is the place I most remember to slow down and be in it, to enjoy the creative, reflective process, and even if I never publish another poem, I have these beautiful moments of poeting, which is why I do it in the first place.

Thank you always for your grace and wise words. You’ve become a favorite poet of mine‼️💞

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

And so it goes! Truer words were never said. 😅Thank you, Lisa. 🩷

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Verna Wilder's avatar

So much hanging on and letting go, a practice to live by.

When my granddaughter finished boot camp, she asked me to write out a line that she would have tattooed on her body, a line from a song I used to sing to her. I have that matching tattoo. She is a stoic, that young woman, but she asked for something deep and meaningful that she will carry on her body forever. I am blown away by such love. Thank you, Danusha, for what you write, what you do, how you live.

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

What a beautiful bond and amazing story! 🌺🩷🥹

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Stephanie Carney's avatar

Thank you for sharing your thoughts- a most timely reminder for me! ❣️

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Danusha Laméris's avatar

Time for a tattoo! 😅

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Francesca's avatar

Love these nouns that show up, somewhat surprisingly!

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